Fine Line

There is a fine line between having grace and exercising your human free will. While grace allows you to forgive, free will can give the enemy a chance to exploit your vulnerabilities, especially when you've been hurt by those who claim to love and respect you.

This struggle is a constant battle for believers: deciding when to extend grace to those who take advantage of your trust, transparency, dedication, and love. You might find yourself holding on, having faith, and choosing to see the best in them—even before they see it for themselves. You may wish to envision them fulfilling the God-given purpose set before them, even if they don’t seem worthy of your grace—all while internally fighting a secret struggle.

The challenge lies in discerning the big picture: recognizing that some individuals may not deserve your gift of grace, but what does the word say?. This struggle with decision-making can be especially daunting for believers, particularly those in marriage.

Sometimes, we overlook the enemy's plan as he plants subtle seeds of doubt, nurtures them, and waits for the right moment to reap the harvest. He patiently invests time in challenging your faith and God's promises regarding your marriage, all while testing God's protection before you even realize what is happening. So what do you do in such situations?

Free will might suggest:
- Give up
- You deserve better
- They will do it again
- You can't believe a word they say
- They will never change
- Plan your revenge.

On the other hand, grace says:

"I forgive because Jesus lives in my heart. "Ultimately, grace provides the opportunity for 'What Would Jesus Do' moments, allowing you to practice the teachings of our Savior. Even the Apostle Paul struggled, exclaiming, "Lord, why do I do the things I do not want to do?" It’s okay to feel torn, like Paul, at times wanting to seek revenge or letting the offense jeopardize the life you’ve built together. Don’t let pride obstruct your desire to forgive gracefully.

We've all experienced this internal conflict. So, ask yourself: which choice will bring your soul peace—the kind that surpasses all understanding? You have the free will to choose faith and grace or to allow the enemy to win the battle he crafted to destroy your union, steal your future, and undermine your purpose.