Have you ever read a devotional or scripture that reminds you of how far you've come? Resentment has cost me friends and even family. I built walls to protect myself from the pain of disappointment, convincing myself that staying distant was safer than risking hurt. The outcome I anticipated was always the same—getting close only to be let down. A believer's journey includes choosing to love family members who might gossip or harbor envy towards my successes. They see the fruits of my labor but often overlook the struggles, storms, and the unwavering faith that has carried me through, but now I choose to fall in love with building the Kingdom of God instead of pursuing my own self-interests.
To truly reopen my heart, I realized I needed to submit and surrender to God’s ways. It’s essential to view each person as God’s creation, recognizing that they, too, are imperfect and capable of causing hurt. I understood that the seeds I needed to plant for the future were far more significant than the resentment I held onto. I had to embrace a childlike faith. Like our little ones, whom we may discipline, yet still come running for hugs, I had to learn to forgive quickly and practice turning the other cheek when someone offends me.
Matthew 7:21 (NIV) tells us: "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven." In Matthew 6, we’re reminded to seek first the Kingdom. Even as a new believer, this message resonates deeply. Pastor Mike Todd taught a series and shared that “when it comes to pursuing God, there is no period.” We mustn't put a period in the Kingdom; there are only commas. This means we continue to pursue His Kingdom with intention.By focusing on our spiritual growth and choosing to be His hands and feet in every circle of influence—family, friends, clients, and beyond—we can reach others without limits. Through social media, blogs, small groups, and more, we can create a legacy rooted in a Kingdom mindset.
