How can you cultivate a calm and stoic marriage grounded in biblical principles?
Challenges are inevitable in this world, but if we learn to tap into biblical teachings to strengthen our relationships, we can grow stronger with each other and in the word. So, can you be intentional in anchoring your faith? A great start is to begin each day with a quiet reflection. One scripture you can start with is 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 which speaks to love, patience, and understanding, all of which are essential daily in a marriage and life in general. Meditate on these words and ask God to guide your actions throughout the day. Consider how you can incorporate these attitudes into your life.
Another way is to be mindful of your interactions by practicing reflecting the love of Christ. In James, we learn not only to listen, but he advises us to "be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry." Imagine what your day will look like if you practice these basic principles.
Lastly, celebrate your blessings. Something as simple as the very air you breathe is a blessing, one that we take for granted daily. Make time at the end of the day to reflect together on the day, and even try this each week for a deep reflection on your relationship. Use Colossians 3:13 as a guide. " Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as The Lord forgave you." Consider journaling these moments together to celebrate the milestones in your marriage. One cool idea to incorporate weekly is a gratitude jar. Set a jar by your bedside and weekly each write down your gratitude. A year later, sit together and take turns reading them. You will be full of reminders of all the ways God provided for you throughout the year.
Be encouraged to create a foundation of spiritual wisdom by integrating passages from Proverbs and Psalms into your life, aiming to have a sturdy foundation. Remember that marriage is a journey of companionship, growth, and faith. May God bless your union with peace, understanding, and an everlasting bond that reflects the love of Christ.
